Maybe you encourage a lot of ‘blue-sky thinking’.
Perhaps you suggested to your team that you ‘take things offline’ when you’d rather have a more private conversation about an important issue.
Or, a little disturbingly, you might occasionally consider yourself to be ‘punching a puppy’ when you do something that you know won’t be too popular – a term that Forbes magazine pinpointed as being amongst the most annoying business slang.
Right now though, let’s take a minute to talk about the art of ‘managing expectations’.
You might think that this is all about what happens in the workplace, but it’s actually deeper, and it’s worth taking a little time to understand this. If an individual has money problems outside of the office, then the fact that you implied when they were recruited that they would have had a pay rise by now, then this is the type of thing that’s going to create some serious problems. It’s not just about that pay cheque at the end of the month. It becomes about the everyday lives, worries and concerns of your staff.
Sure, the cause of the money problems might have absolutely nothing to do with you, and they’re almost certainly not your fault. But when you fail to manage expectations effectively, the impact can be far reaching. The working environment can amplify the issues, and put you unwittingly in the position of taking the full blame.
So what’s the solution? It’s pretty simple. Stop lying and get honest from the very beginning. You might think that embellishing the truth a little is just part of attracting the best talent, but telling the truth from the offset is going to save you a whole load of time, money, and hassle.
If you specify a pay bracket, but new recruits start at the bottom and won’t progress for at least two years. Tell them that.
If working weekends is something that you expect of everyone, even those in higher positions. They should know that in advance.
If budgetary constraints mean you won’t be giving out any cash bonuses in the near future. Then that’s fine, but for crying out loud, don’t try to paint a picture that suggests something different.
Your employees will respect you a whole lot more when you stop living by your own hype, and get honest about your objectives, their role in the business, and what’s likely to be achieved in the near and distant future.
This isn’t about constantly being a prophet of doom, and reducing your workforce’s hopes and dreams to dust. It’s about recognising the positive and not-so-positive sides of leadership, acting with integrity, and ultimately, doing the right thing. After all, the right thing to do is always the right thing to do.
If this has struck a cord and you want some honest advice about the best way to handle these sorts of challenges – we can help.
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